Dating Safety Guide

Online dating can be wonderful, but its important to protect yourself. Learn how to stay safe while looking for love.

Protecting Your Personal Information

  • Never share financial information - Bank accounts, credit cards, Social Security
  • Use the dating site messaging first - Dont give out your phone number too quickly
  • Create a separate email - Use it just for dating correspondence
  • Dont share your home address - Meet in public places instead
  • Be cautious with photos - Avoid sharing photos that reveal your location

Warning Signs of Scams

Red Flags to Watch For:

  • They ask for money for any reason
  • They claim to be overseas (military, oil rig, etc.)
  • They profess love very quickly
  • They avoid video calls or meeting in person
  • Their story has inconsistencies
  • They want to move conversation off the dating site immediately

Meeting Safely in Person

  • Always meet in a public place
  • Tell a friend or family member about your plans
  • Arrange your own transportation
  • Keep your phone charged
  • Trust your instincts - if something feels wrong, leave
  • Dont feel pressured to go somewhere private

What to Do If Something Goes Wrong

  • Block and report suspicious profiles on the dating site
  • If you sent money, contact your bank immediately
  • Report scams to the FTC at reportfraud.ftc.gov
  • If you feel unsafe, contact local police